diff --git a/pkgs/development/compilers/llvm/10/libcxxabi/default.nix b/pkgs/development/compilers/llvm/10/libcxxabi/default.nix
index 482ced8e0c3fc..c61f48485580f 100644
--- a/pkgs/development/compilers/llvm/10/libcxxabi/default.nix
+++ b/pkgs/development/compilers/llvm/10/libcxxabi/default.nix
@@ -42,11 +42,21 @@ stdenv.mkDerivation {
 
   preInstall = lib.optionalString stdenv.isDarwin ''
     for file in lib/*.dylib; do
+      # Fix up the install name. Preserve the basename, just replace the path.
+      installName="$out/lib/$(basename $(otool -D $file | tail -n 1))"
+
       # this should be done in CMake, but having trouble figuring out
       # the magic combination of necessary CMake variables
       # if you fancy a try, take a look at
       # https://gitlab.kitware.com/cmake/community/-/wikis/doc/cmake/RPATH-handling
-      install_name_tool -id $out/$file $file
+      ${stdenv.cc.targetPrefix}install_name_tool -id $installName $file
+
+      # cc-wrapper passes '-lc++abi' to all c++ link steps, but that causes
+      # libcxxabi to sometimes link against a different version of itself.
+      # Here we simply make that second reference point to ourselves.
+      for other in $(otool -L $file | awk '$1 ~ "/libc\\+\\+abi" { print $1 }'); do
+        ${stdenv.cc.targetPrefix}install_name_tool -change $other $installName $file
+      done
     done
   '';
 
diff --git a/pkgs/development/compilers/llvm/11/libcxxabi/default.nix b/pkgs/development/compilers/llvm/11/libcxxabi/default.nix
index 6c4ca925ab116..2359820dddecd 100644
--- a/pkgs/development/compilers/llvm/11/libcxxabi/default.nix
+++ b/pkgs/development/compilers/llvm/11/libcxxabi/default.nix
@@ -46,11 +46,21 @@ stdenv.mkDerivation {
 
   preInstall = lib.optionalString stdenv.isDarwin ''
     for file in lib/*.dylib; do
+      # Fix up the install name. Preserve the basename, just replace the path.
+      installName="$out/lib/$(basename $(otool -D $file | tail -n 1))"
+
       # this should be done in CMake, but having trouble figuring out
       # the magic combination of necessary CMake variables
       # if you fancy a try, take a look at
       # https://gitlab.kitware.com/cmake/community/-/wikis/doc/cmake/RPATH-handling
-      install_name_tool -id $out/$file $file
+      ${stdenv.cc.targetPrefix}install_name_tool -id $installName $file
+
+      # cc-wrapper passes '-lc++abi' to all c++ link steps, but that causes
+      # libcxxabi to sometimes link against a different version of itself.
+      # Here we simply make that second reference point to ourselves.
+      for other in $(otool -L $file | awk '$1 ~ "/libc\\+\\+abi" { print $1 }'); do
+        ${stdenv.cc.targetPrefix}install_name_tool -change $other $installName $file
+      done
     done
   '';
 
diff --git a/pkgs/development/compilers/llvm/12/libcxxabi/default.nix b/pkgs/development/compilers/llvm/12/libcxxabi/default.nix
index 89b56ad230d85..c130a6c1c3115 100644
--- a/pkgs/development/compilers/llvm/12/libcxxabi/default.nix
+++ b/pkgs/development/compilers/llvm/12/libcxxabi/default.nix
@@ -44,11 +44,21 @@ stdenv.mkDerivation {
 
   preInstall = lib.optionalString stdenv.isDarwin ''
     for file in lib/*.dylib; do
+      # Fix up the install name. Preserve the basename, just replace the path.
+      installName="$out/lib/$(basename $(otool -D $file | tail -n 1))"
+
       # this should be done in CMake, but having trouble figuring out
       # the magic combination of necessary CMake variables
       # if you fancy a try, take a look at
       # https://gitlab.kitware.com/cmake/community/-/wikis/doc/cmake/RPATH-handling
-      install_name_tool -id $out/$file $file
+      ${stdenv.cc.targetPrefix}install_name_tool -id $installName $file
+
+      # cc-wrapper passes '-lc++abi' to all c++ link steps, but that causes
+      # libcxxabi to sometimes link against a different version of itself.
+      # Here we simply make that second reference point to ourselves.
+      for other in $(otool -L $file | awk '$1 ~ "/libc\\+\\+abi" { print $1 }'); do
+        ${stdenv.cc.targetPrefix}install_name_tool -change $other $installName $file
+      done
     done
   '';
 
diff --git a/pkgs/development/compilers/llvm/13/libcxxabi/default.nix b/pkgs/development/compilers/llvm/13/libcxxabi/default.nix
index 16ea0b113c754..5da86b96d5a72 100644
--- a/pkgs/development/compilers/llvm/13/libcxxabi/default.nix
+++ b/pkgs/development/compilers/llvm/13/libcxxabi/default.nix
@@ -41,11 +41,21 @@ stdenv.mkDerivation rec {
 
   preInstall = lib.optionalString stdenv.isDarwin ''
     for file in lib/*.dylib; do
+      # Fix up the install name. Preserve the basename, just replace the path.
+      installName="$out/lib/$(basename $(otool -D $file | tail -n 1))"
+
       # this should be done in CMake, but having trouble figuring out
       # the magic combination of necessary CMake variables
       # if you fancy a try, take a look at
       # https://gitlab.kitware.com/cmake/community/-/wikis/doc/cmake/RPATH-handling
-      install_name_tool -id $out/$file $file
+      ${stdenv.cc.targetPrefix}install_name_tool -id $installName $file
+
+      # cc-wrapper passes '-lc++abi' to all c++ link steps, but that causes
+      # libcxxabi to sometimes link against a different version of itself.
+      # Here we simply make that second reference point to ourselves.
+      for other in $(otool -L $file | awk '$1 ~ "/libc\\+\\+abi" { print $1 }'); do
+        ${stdenv.cc.targetPrefix}install_name_tool -change $other $installName $file
+      done
     done
   '';
 
diff --git a/pkgs/development/compilers/llvm/14/libcxxabi/default.nix b/pkgs/development/compilers/llvm/14/libcxxabi/default.nix
index d64708ab040ae..0487f1d0de83c 100644
--- a/pkgs/development/compilers/llvm/14/libcxxabi/default.nix
+++ b/pkgs/development/compilers/llvm/14/libcxxabi/default.nix
@@ -52,12 +52,23 @@ stdenv.mkDerivation rec {
   installPhase = if stdenv.isDarwin
     then ''
       for file in lib/*.dylib; do
+        # Fix up the install name. Preserve the basename, just replace the path.
+        installName="$out/lib/$(basename $(otool -D $file | tail -n 1))"
+
         # this should be done in CMake, but having trouble figuring out
         # the magic combination of necessary CMake variables
         # if you fancy a try, take a look at
         # https://gitlab.kitware.com/cmake/community/-/wikis/doc/cmake/RPATH-handling
-        install_name_tool -id $out/$file $file
+        ${stdenv.cc.targetPrefix}install_name_tool -id $installName $file
+
+        # cc-wrapper passes '-lc++abi' to all c++ link steps, but that causes
+        # libcxxabi to sometimes link against a different version of itself.
+        # Here we simply make that second reference point to ourselves.
+        for other in $(otool -L $file | awk '$1 ~ "/libc\\+\\+abi" { print $1 }'); do
+          ${stdenv.cc.targetPrefix}install_name_tool -change $other $installName $file
+        done
       done
+
       make install
       install -d 755 $out/include
       install -m 644 ../include/*.h $out/include
diff --git a/pkgs/development/compilers/llvm/5/libcxxabi/default.nix b/pkgs/development/compilers/llvm/5/libcxxabi/default.nix
index 60a41ab2d8303..f2f707ec445d0 100644
--- a/pkgs/development/compilers/llvm/5/libcxxabi/default.nix
+++ b/pkgs/development/compilers/llvm/5/libcxxabi/default.nix
@@ -27,11 +27,21 @@ stdenv.mkDerivation {
 
   preInstall = lib.optionalString stdenv.isDarwin ''
     for file in lib/*.dylib; do
+      # Fix up the install name. Preserve the basename, just replace the path.
+      installName="$out/lib/$(basename $(otool -D $file | tail -n 1))"
+
       # this should be done in CMake, but having trouble figuring out
       # the magic combination of necessary CMake variables
       # if you fancy a try, take a look at
       # https://gitlab.kitware.com/cmake/community/-/wikis/doc/cmake/RPATH-handling
-      install_name_tool -id $out/$file $file
+      ${stdenv.cc.targetPrefix}install_name_tool -id $installName $file
+
+      # cc-wrapper passes '-lc++abi' to all c++ link steps, but that causes
+      # libcxxabi to sometimes link against a different version of itself.
+      # Here we simply make that second reference point to ourselves.
+      for other in $(otool -L $file | awk '$1 ~ "/libc\\+\\+abi" { print $1 }'); do
+        ${stdenv.cc.targetPrefix}install_name_tool -change $other $installName $file
+      done
     done
   '';
 
diff --git a/pkgs/development/compilers/llvm/6/libcxxabi/default.nix b/pkgs/development/compilers/llvm/6/libcxxabi/default.nix
index d7de130fbaaf6..63e6eee6f596c 100644
--- a/pkgs/development/compilers/llvm/6/libcxxabi/default.nix
+++ b/pkgs/development/compilers/llvm/6/libcxxabi/default.nix
@@ -27,11 +27,21 @@ stdenv.mkDerivation {
 
   preInstall = lib.optionalString stdenv.isDarwin ''
     for file in lib/*.dylib; do
+      # Fix up the install name. Preserve the basename, just replace the path.
+      installName="$out/lib/$(basename $(otool -D $file | tail -n 1))"
+
       # this should be done in CMake, but having trouble figuring out
       # the magic combination of necessary CMake variables
       # if you fancy a try, take a look at
       # https://gitlab.kitware.com/cmake/community/-/wikis/doc/cmake/RPATH-handling
-      install_name_tool -id $out/$file $file
+      ${stdenv.cc.targetPrefix}install_name_tool -id $installName $file
+
+      # cc-wrapper passes '-lc++abi' to all c++ link steps, but that causes
+      # libcxxabi to sometimes link against a different version of itself.
+      # Here we simply make that second reference point to ourselves.
+      for other in $(otool -L $file | awk '$1 ~ "/libc\\+\\+abi" { print $1 }'); do
+        ${stdenv.cc.targetPrefix}install_name_tool -change $other $installName $file
+      done
     done
   '';
 
diff --git a/pkgs/development/compilers/llvm/7/libcxxabi/default.nix b/pkgs/development/compilers/llvm/7/libcxxabi/default.nix
index 1bc9444feda11..721200136a57b 100644
--- a/pkgs/development/compilers/llvm/7/libcxxabi/default.nix
+++ b/pkgs/development/compilers/llvm/7/libcxxabi/default.nix
@@ -46,11 +46,21 @@ stdenv.mkDerivation {
 
   preInstall = lib.optionalString stdenv.isDarwin ''
     for file in lib/*.dylib; do
+      # Fix up the install name. Preserve the basename, just replace the path.
+      installName="$out/lib/$(basename $(otool -D $file | tail -n 1))"
+
       # this should be done in CMake, but having trouble figuring out
       # the magic combination of necessary CMake variables
       # if you fancy a try, take a look at
       # https://gitlab.kitware.com/cmake/community/-/wikis/doc/cmake/RPATH-handling
-      install_name_tool -id $out/$file $file
+      ${stdenv.cc.targetPrefix}install_name_tool -id $installName $file
+
+      # cc-wrapper passes '-lc++abi' to all c++ link steps, but that causes
+      # libcxxabi to sometimes link against a different version of itself.
+      # Here we simply make that second reference point to ourselves.
+      for other in $(otool -L $file | awk '$1 ~ "/libc\\+\\+abi" { print $1 }'); do
+        ${stdenv.cc.targetPrefix}install_name_tool -change $other $installName $file
+      done
     done
   '';
 
diff --git a/pkgs/development/compilers/llvm/8/libcxxabi/default.nix b/pkgs/development/compilers/llvm/8/libcxxabi/default.nix
index 50a5eabc17039..5ade8a5ae66f9 100644
--- a/pkgs/development/compilers/llvm/8/libcxxabi/default.nix
+++ b/pkgs/development/compilers/llvm/8/libcxxabi/default.nix
@@ -42,11 +42,21 @@ stdenv.mkDerivation {
 
   preInstall = lib.optionalString stdenv.isDarwin ''
     for file in lib/*.dylib; do
+      # Fix up the install name. Preserve the basename, just replace the path.
+      installName="$out/lib/$(basename $(otool -D $file | tail -n 1))"
+
       # this should be done in CMake, but having trouble figuring out
       # the magic combination of necessary CMake variables
       # if you fancy a try, take a look at
       # https://gitlab.kitware.com/cmake/community/-/wikis/doc/cmake/RPATH-handling
-      install_name_tool -id $out/$file $file
+      ${stdenv.cc.targetPrefix}install_name_tool -id $installName $file
+
+      # cc-wrapper passes '-lc++abi' to all c++ link steps, but that causes
+      # libcxxabi to sometimes link against a different version of itself.
+      # Here we simply make that second reference point to ourselves.
+      for other in $(otool -L $file | awk '$1 ~ "/libc\\+\\+abi" { print $1 }'); do
+        ${stdenv.cc.targetPrefix}install_name_tool -change $other $installName $file
+      done
     done
   '';
 
diff --git a/pkgs/development/compilers/llvm/9/libcxxabi/default.nix b/pkgs/development/compilers/llvm/9/libcxxabi/default.nix
index ee6834affbcd3..4a235f5c2ef70 100644
--- a/pkgs/development/compilers/llvm/9/libcxxabi/default.nix
+++ b/pkgs/development/compilers/llvm/9/libcxxabi/default.nix
@@ -42,11 +42,21 @@ stdenv.mkDerivation {
 
   preInstall = lib.optionalString stdenv.isDarwin ''
     for file in lib/*.dylib; do
+      # Fix up the install name. Preserve the basename, just replace the path.
+      installName="$out/lib/$(basename $(otool -D $file | tail -n 1))"
+
       # this should be done in CMake, but having trouble figuring out
       # the magic combination of necessary CMake variables
       # if you fancy a try, take a look at
       # https://gitlab.kitware.com/cmake/community/-/wikis/doc/cmake/RPATH-handling
-      install_name_tool -id $out/$file $file
+      ${stdenv.cc.targetPrefix}install_name_tool -id $installName $file
+
+      # cc-wrapper passes '-lc++abi' to all c++ link steps, but that causes
+      # libcxxabi to sometimes link against a different version of itself.
+      # Here we simply make that second reference point to ourselves.
+      for other in $(otool -L $file | awk '$1 ~ "/libc\\+\\+abi" { print $1 }'); do
+        ${stdenv.cc.targetPrefix}install_name_tool -change $other $installName $file
+      done
     done
   '';
 
diff --git a/pkgs/development/compilers/llvm/git/libcxxabi/default.nix b/pkgs/development/compilers/llvm/git/libcxxabi/default.nix
index 2d4fe974c016b..b478668ebded9 100644
--- a/pkgs/development/compilers/llvm/git/libcxxabi/default.nix
+++ b/pkgs/development/compilers/llvm/git/libcxxabi/default.nix
@@ -70,11 +70,21 @@ stdenv.mkDerivation rec {
 
   preInstall = lib.optionalString stdenv.isDarwin ''
     for file in lib/*.dylib; do
+      # Fix up the install name. Preserve the basename, just replace the path.
+      installName="$out/lib/$(basename $(otool -D $file | tail -n 1))"
+
       # this should be done in CMake, but having trouble figuring out
       # the magic combination of necessary CMake variables
       # if you fancy a try, take a look at
       # https://gitlab.kitware.com/cmake/community/-/wikis/doc/cmake/RPATH-handling
-      install_name_tool -id $out/$file $file
+      ${stdenv.cc.targetPrefix}install_name_tool -id $installName $file
+
+      # cc-wrapper passes '-lc++abi' to all c++ link steps, but that causes
+      # libcxxabi to sometimes link against a different version of itself.
+      # Here we simply make that second reference point to ourselves.
+      for other in $(otool -L $file | awk '$1 ~ "/libc\\+\\+abi" { print $1 }'); do
+        ${stdenv.cc.targetPrefix}install_name_tool -change $other $installName $file
+      done
     done
   '';