Make options and value required in TabBar

[chawes13]

v3.31.0 introduced an enhancement where the styling will be applied correctly to the first option (if any exist), but since this is a controlled input that doesn't really address the need in terms of functionality. a Tablist should always have a tab visible, so we should require that value is set. Related to that, options should be required as well because you can't really have a value set if there are no options

[chawes13]

Note: this would be a breaking change, but could go in v4