Feat/apply incremental schema changes

[canbekley]

Summary

implementation of schema changes for incremental models are currently missing. detecting schema changes during materialization would fallback to the legacy incremental strategy. this is not user-friendly and not feasible for very large models. schema changes for distributed_incremental materialization were not supported at all.

this pr contains

• support for applying schema changes for incremental and distributed_incremental materializations
• implementation of the on_schema_change='sync_all_column' strategy as per official dbt specs
• fix of an issue in distributed_incremental materialzation and on_schema_change='ignore', where new columns in the target relation would break the dbt run during creation of the __dbt_new_data_ tables
• fix of an issue in distributed_incremental materialzation, where column order changes would break the dbt run (or insert data to the wrong columns)

Checklist

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• Unit and integration tests covering the common scenarios were added
• A human-readable description of the changes was provided to include in CHANGELOG
• For significant changes, documentation in https://github.com/ClickHouse/clickhouse-docs was updated with further explanations or tutorials

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[BentsiLeviav]

Github changed its docker-compose command so all the tests failed. I adjusted it in #334 and merged it to main.
@canbekley Could you please merge main to your branch?