feat: speed up connect and disconnect

[bdraco]

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[codecov]

Codecov Report

Patch coverage: 88.88% and project coverage change: +0.14% 🎉

Comparison is base (5f5a150) 83.30% compared to head (c4a0a3b) 83.45%.
Report is 1 commits behind head on main.

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+ Coverage   83.30%   83.45%   +0.14%     
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  Files          28       28              
  Lines        3258     3263       +5     
  Branches      677      677              
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+ Hits         2714     2723       +9     
+ Misses        329      327       -2     
+ Partials      215      213       -2     

Files Changed	Coverage Δ
src/dbus_fast/__version__.py	0.00% <0.00%> (ø)
src/dbus_fast/_private/address.py	71.42% <100.00%> (+0.41%)	⬆️
src/dbus_fast/message_bus.py	71.84% <100.00%> (+0.20%)	⬆️

... and 2 files with indirect coverage changes

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